My Masonic Brother Sir Richard Branson
posted on instagram “We can all create our own luck by taking the necessary risks to open the door to change” I said to him NOT TRUE – because if the people you love, want to hold you back, well you are doomed – it is especially hard to make anything of your life NO MATTER HOW TALENTED YOU ARE IF YOU HAVE UNFIT parents
Fathers Day 1985
Teens were placed by Children services Queensland to stay at this dirty run down home, on acreage, one new teen was placed in a bungalow where the elderly parents who were not approved foster carers resided beside the approved foster home. The Foster woman foster carer was married to a man who ran a self-run sect, which he tried to call a church, but it was not a proper church, in the normal sense, because it was not in a church building, where the public may join the congregation for worship, for Easter, Christmas and anyone is welcome to attend any Sunday. It was a closed off to the general public -church. If a teen did not want to go to this small odd group religious meeting in a local primary school, in backward isolated country classroom, the entire family and long-term kids would then bully anyone who did not want to attend the service. The family who lived in squalor were most judgemental, calling any teen a devil’s child, if they were against the pretend church. The teens were banned from being spiritual and had no right to practice their own beliefs.
The unregulated church was very nosey, trying to tease out and hear the sordid details from the rejected teens each week as part of the service. Which was intrusive as was telling to teens, they only suffered and were abused as they did NOT love their God. The members were a small handful of parishioners who all knew new teens who attended the church, were WARD of STATES, fostered by the self-appointed religious leader; which in hindsight, is highly unethical.
The church being run, by a father of a family of rough hillbillys with a rusty old fridge old van and bad food. The family got free bread from the bakery and free old fruit vegetables this was supposed to be for stock feed for animals but they had no animals. Instead the foster children and foster teens were fed awful horrid meals which the teens had to prepare such as mince on the stale old bread. They were not allowed sweets but the eldest daughter had chocolate bars which she did NOT share and ate in front of the others. The newly placed teen was told she would live in the new home – the bungalow which was quite spectacular in comparison to the main house where the boys room stank and could have separate snacks too, if she just wen along and went to their dad’s church. You all know this is bad for someone who has never had treats, and knew the value of everything, but far worse for a teen from family who lived well (otherwise than the physical and emotional abuse and domestic violence) and had treats. The teen was adamant she was moving in with her bestie mum who was amazing spiritual healer so no. This was immediately met with oh that’s what so & so, said but then parents do not get approved by Children’s Services, so you are stuck here.
However on Monday at school the teen told her bestie, who in turn told her real father a builder, and his new wife said whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat we live down he road in Waterford, and she is eating Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat and despite them having four toddler children they most kindly intervened and supported the well achieving teen and who was their daughters bestie until his ex-wife’s claim which was approved.
The teens end placement was with the besties mum, a magnificent vegetarian healing woman, as was her husband kind and respectful to the teen. Without any counselling whatsoever, however the teen missed her real mum and the stepdad came to the highschool and told the teen the mother was dying, and he would be returning back to the UK, and the reen could go when he got back to Australia, so the newly placed teen returned to her mum. It was a trick to think as the teen never got to return to her UK homeland as was the promises to the court, phone calls and visits. Despite the teen having ample saving to pay for a world trip. Instead the funds were taken from the teen and used to buy the stepdad’s home which he got when the teens parents broke up and it flooded so it was utterly unsellable, the pumped up price and palmed off onto the teen.
The real dad, and the chance of producing the songs was cut off and the teen was prevented from producing any of the 100 songs. Sadly to this day even despite remaining quite disciplined in the area and the grown up teen having had the funds to do so since the year 2000, – the lack of self-belief and self-worth – has never completely returned to her soul, when the teen found her mother had tricked her the pain in her soul was unbearable. Despite this deception- the teen regained some of her her form and made it into the Center of Artistic development, where she could hide behind other’s scripts and not create – which was the teens childhood dream. The teen was told by her stepdad once he returned from UK that she was dirty and hang with faggots in drama school – who all had AIDS – HIV and the abuse became impossible. The teen was told she could not use any utensils or plates, pots, pans or towels etc of the family. The teen had offended her bestie by returning after all the besties family and other who were close all warned the teen and knew it was a set-up- but the teen desperate to be accepted by her mother quit school at her stepdads urging and did the job he suggested she do to get some peace in the family the mother joined the daughter at the workplace on the weekends. The teen was always allowed to work she worked for years and was ready to go to the UK to see her real dad. Any teen who worked before a children’s service placement, normally did not get taken to their part-time jobs during the placement and if the teen had their own bank account and wanted to eat properly and meet her besties to the shops, but they could not, because this property was completely off the beaten track and there was no transport and the location was to remain secret. No one was supposed to know the location, there were no mobile phones in 1985. This Children’s Services placement home at Chambers Flat, which is South West of Brisbane, housed a wide variety of teens. The family itself were a large family- of judgemental in nature – who could simply not fathom a well-dressed designer label teen who shopped in David Jones clad teenager. The teen who only got her hair cut at two places in Brisbane, and was thankfully married at 17 years of age, to a cool man forever, is a creative being and ran a successful advertising studio. This teen was ridiculed called posh for having an English London accent, yet the in-laws at the placement property, were nice the the teen as they English too. The female teen who suffers painful joint life-long condition she was teased for the popping noises and again called a devil’s child, for being like double- jointed. It was not the a familiar social grundnorm to have any achieving teens, at their home. This teen worked part-time since 12, taught at Brownies as a junior leader from 14 years old. And was a Girl Guide with a signed off BP award at the time of the placement, which she still has and to this very day, the BP Award has NOT BEEN AWARDED. The teen was not given opportunity to contact her Guide leaders. This teen DID NOTHING FUCKING WRONG and was lumbered in with troubled youth. The teen was one of the most passionate guides attending most guide events in Brisbane and being one of Guides with the most badges awarded, (unless their mum was a leader). An international guide who joined Brownies from age 6-in London. This teen was a philanthropist, her generosity for others began in primary school in the UK, where she independently aged 9 years old put together a stall, at the school fete to raise money for her school; when most kids are happy to go & make their parents spend at the fete. When This teen came to Australia she did not stop she raised money for her music block by running aerobic classes in the music block twice a week and they were a packed-out affair and in return Mrs Casey her music teacher a lovely woman, taught the teenager guitar, giving up her own time to give the teen complimentary lessons after-school. The teen was always involved in the community, where she would put on Christmas plays from aged 10 giving out all the roles, writing the script the costumes whilst her parents were at work with-out them knowing sending invites to all the street mum’s and toddlers, getting all the kids in the street involved a BORN leader. The teen manned stalls at the Beenleigh Show to raise money for the Cancer Foundation. The newly placed teen was slim and she was fit because she trained and ran everyday attend the gym seven days a week, being a self-disciplined person who had two full-time working parents- the teen organised her time and run around the block and up the hill, eventually although suffering a painful loud popping joint condition the teen managed to catch up and came 3rd in cross country with her two besties, so making the in zones cross country. The teen learned from a young age to block out the pain and to focus on positives and the mote she ran the fitter she got. The teen was also was in the school hockey teams. The stepdad and mother had forced this teen into modelling and she had been a winning heat model, at 13 -competing against 16 year old teens, this was well known in a small community, which was an utterly horrid experience of being judged in a swimsuit whilst a child and developing into a woman. The teen relaxed with singing the most, it let her live and breath as she played the guitar and wrote songs (one hundred in all) just to cope with the FORCED separation from her London, talented guitar playing and singing father. The parents gave the guitar away when the teenager was at a Sunnybank Aboriginal live band deadly- footy party as so it was the teens night off taking her guitar to her mates as it was a professional bands night. The teen was talented actor, well achieving was in Advanced maths her mother paid for a tutor. The teen achieved High Distinctions in English and in theatre. The teen was an artist and had won two poster National competitions, the placement home did not have any art supplies, not even coloured pencils. The new teen at the placement was an all -round eccentric and much-loved Student- who simply had a mother from the UK who would not admit she was unable to cope with her daughter blossoming into a young lady. The teens mother was too proud to admit she was unable, and could not stop the domestically violent bully stepdad- who was constantly belittling, her child. This doubled as being an embarrassment and well-known man’s pommy voice heard screaming fear throughout the suburb, due to the fact the stepdad terrorized the neighbourhood with worry, because he was unpredictable being the only MALE who could be heard yelling in the streets, and only Londoner where they lived. The local people were concerned, because real men do not need to yell- and hit little kid/teens around. The general consensus with the surviving neighbours is- NO real dad who is a reasonable man would do so, let alone even kick a child out of home. When the child is from an overseas country and has no family and is living with a false surname. this is compounded and adds volumes to the trauma. The fact the full-time working mother, could not care for her daughter and protect her from her husband who was always coming home in the day early and unpredictably the frazzled woman was kept on edge, where she died young. Because when she needed support she was from a family of 15, in UK, but where the stepdad moved to abuse the teen without family interference and pretend the girls were his own child, whom he abused daily. So the mother was helpless under the stepdad’s control, because she had no family support in the country, who were able to assist her. This was totally amplified by the domestically violent stepdad who had formed a lifelong hatred for the step daughter when she said she is a Mellor like her dad is, and she drew a logo to sing and perform Mel Mellor which she was beaten brutally for. The stepdad is not ashamed to commit crimes in the public arena, as this monster is above the law, and he still holds this contempt to the point, where he committed fraud at the death of the mother, just not to have to write the real surname Mellor.
A UK born teen was forced to suffer, all because the teens approved guardians were completely inadequate parents and were too stubborn to return the child to her homeland where a real father loved and still loves his child eternally, and unconditionally. The teen was not sent back to her loving father, despite the stepdad being able to return to the UK several times over the years, which breached UK conditions of a court order promising communication between the father and teen. The parents did well financially paying off all debts and mortgages a couple who owning their home out-right in 1981. So being a working class but quite a wealthy family, because the stepdad did jobs on the side for cash. The family only lived in that particular area, as the mother who was a professional business woman, and needed to live close to her workplace because she did not like driving far as she only gained her licence at age 29, and not from a lack of funds and being poor.
The acreage placement home, housed teens those are teens abandoned by their very own families- to youth who had committed serious crime such as vicious acts, gang rape and armed theft. The majority of teen girls who were kicked out of home by their parents were usually Pommy extraction – WASPS – the white Anglo Saxon people. These self-righteous WASPY white people who disown and ditch their teens kick them out of home, and kick their elderly parents into nursing homes. WASPS do this at a far higher and more rapid rates than non—white cultures do where family values are there to outweigh, seasons of ill wind. These teens are easy to discredit -all lumped into one bundle- Ward of The State Children’s Services failed these children big-time.
Anyway, the location although hidden – was known to bikies who planned a successful escape of another free- thinking teen in the home, who also said they were strange people and the family said this teen was also the devil’s child. The new teen wanted to join the other freethinker and escape the abuse, but however the family suspected the escape and told off the new high achieving teen. The foster carers Pastor & wife then made sure the newly placed high achieving teen, who placed in the brand new bungalow, was locked in with the creepy older parent in-laws the grandparents and away from the main home. The other nights all the homes were unlocked the main home has no fly screens at all. The in-laws lived in luxury with all the trimmings and all the newly paced teen girls went to the new bungalow first, so they decide to stay at the property but then a bed was squished into the main house and so on. Besides the in-laws who were NOT APPROVED TO CARE FOR CHILDREN – this is unlawful because the teen was imprisoned against their will because of security screened home paced under lock and key. When the teen had besties who parents were eventually with approved to foster and yet newly placed female teens were placed in the new residence with old unapproved people.
So when it comes to neglected teens, we have those who have spent their noses in books from year four primary school – volunteering helping people and raising funds for their school and wider community but kicked out of home for dating a black fella; to those teens who have been living out their lives selfishly since year four primary school, bullying and robbing people and hanging out, being told what to do by the town drug dealers- and eventually getting caught – for some of it. And the media ask if we should be lenient on teens who commit crimes NOT before the
GOOD TEENS & THEIR REAL FATHER’S PAIN AND TRAUMA IS TO BE FULLY RECOGNISED
OVERSEAS REAL DADS TRICKED BY THE STEPDAD, WHO IS TOLD BY LETTER TO FUCK OFF AS YOU ARE POOR, MUM & STEPDAD ARE RICH FUCK YOU 1982
& then a letter in 1983
THE DAD HAS TO LET IT GO HE IS POWERLESS HIS DAUGHTER, IS LIVING THE HIGH-LIFE BUT WAS ACTUALLY IMPRISONED AFTER BEING LUMPED IN WITH THAT LOT OF DELINQUENTS –
JUST WHEN ARE REAL DADS & TEENS WHO MADE A STAND AGAINST THEIR STEPDADS HATRED TOWARD THEM WHICH WAS AN INESCAPABLE VIOLENT FORCE, ON A FOREIGN SHORE, EVER TO GAIN SOME JUSTICE For being hoodwinked.
For a father who is an absolute true gentlemen, to have his daughter a good child, forced into a weekend where the real dad NEVER DREAMED HIS PRECIOUS LITTLE TEEN PRINCESSES WOULD EVER BE, because it was FATHER’S DAY 1985 after-all. This is just one-day of the WARD of STATE- why do teens suffer further in an attempt to protect themselves from abuse. Then to top it all off are threatened by their abuser who is allowed to commit fraud and leave this high achiever off her mothers death certificate
In truth –and in the public interests as that man terrorised his stepdaughter he despises, and the entire neighbourhood screaming at the child for years.
WE WANT ANSWERS as to why Queensland police allowed a man who grew 600 illegal drug plants at his home to keep children, who WERE NOT HIS CHILDREN, when they had STRICT UK provisions for contact with the real dad in London. The stepdad instead managed to hide and lie about his surname, so that the communication could not be chased up through the education health and tax system. The Queensland Police added volumes to the abuse of this child’s suffering. One has to wonder when they were ward of state UK provisions not being followed that teen could have been saved by the police, if the stepdad was adequately dealt with for producing a large quantity of illegal drugs. The lack of investigations allowed the family to keep hiding behind the lie that the teen was his own flesh, and the abused mother forced he teens to pretend the children were the stepdads – and fraudulently used the name at school and in the system and the UK pair accepted false claims for years. The aggressive step dad warned the teen if she ever TOLD ANYONE THAT HER NAME WAS her real fathers, she will be dis-owned by the mother and him and the sister.
The state of Qld has been the vessel used for the purposes of this disownership of this then teen- on many occasions – into her adulthood allowing fraud to trump law.
So there is a snippet of the different types places where teens are forced to do things against their family upbringing. It is an abhorrent system which due the the lack of foster carers allows teens to be forced to attend makeshift churches and paraded in front of strangers, what ever happen to children’s rights-
Ok that is my candid account now add a foreign language and non-western county into the midst FFS –
This is why I love youth and want POSITIVE change and the displacement of refugees is deeply understood by me and I will fight to end mandatory detention – because the system is flawed.
So I will keep asking all the people directly, who I know can help these kids in exile- whether they be refugees or mis-placed youth, so please for those I have asked you are VERY SPECIAL PEOPLE WHO CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE and to those I am still about to ask – I am am just a lil bit nervous still – but my VC backed my idea – so LOOKOUT LOVELIES – I will do it