Domestic violence situations where sexual abuse happens to kids because of complicit predator couples is the worst form of domestic abuse imaginable.
No reasonable person in history is happy to hear her partner is cheating on her with anyone, be it someone you know and a so-called friend, well this makes the cheating even more of a betrayal. Waves of betrayal sweep over the one who has been betrayed they lose a sense of self.
In many cases when the child speaks up about sexual abuse the mother is placed in a position of utter ‘SHOCK’, whereby the mother instantly discovers her partner is two timing on her, with her child
How much worse is it for a child, to tell their mum who feels she is an attractive and lovable woman that the mum’s partner is interfering with her, this crime is so devastating to NATURE & THE VERY ESSENCE OF MOTHERHOOD. Just as the earth itself shudders as the waves roar and erode away at the shores violently, nothing is ever to be the same for child, from that point on in time- the child who speaks out about sexual abuse has immediately lost his/her innocence to their mother forever. The mother, who then realises her partner is sexually attracted to the child, to such an extent he is prepared to repeatedly break the law to fondle and rape the child.
The mother consolidates on the truth in the saying- “it is not all about you,’ is now from the mouth of a paedophile. These habitual common place phrases, are used as another a method of control, an avoidance and NOT an answer.
Any child who has ever tried to speak up and STOP sexual abuse – is either loved by the mum who leaves immediately; or the sexual abuse is denied. Then hidden by the implicit predator mother, who has lost all sense of reality “AND LIVES IN DENIAL” this woman is involved and allows the abuse for her own sexual gratification or offends against the child through her evil jealous inadequacies. A sexually controlled and addictive mother, cannot leave the man when she is sexually addicted, and instead condones her partners criminal sexual abuse against her child, these mothers are complicit under criminal law.
More mothers must be charged with allowing sexual abuse to occur. Because for the woman who gave birth to the child to be setting her daughter up as a sexual abuse victim because the mother wants to keep her sexual partner, is a heinous trap. All mothers are expected to love the child, more than life itself, and for them to be a criminal mother who is implicit dressing the child in scantily clad outfits, given no bras, to pleasure her husband, who is allowed to walk around with an erection. Then pushing the child to anything where they are naked- and the child feels uncomfortable. The lil’ underage semi naked get together’ are the places predator parents meet other creeps who also take their naked stepkids to perve on. These creeps form support groups, install swimming pools, some kids are forced to train or join a gym with the stepdad. There are cases after a child complains of abuse many predator parents then push the child to model in bikinis in front of other predators. Then the creeps swap around the sexually abused kids at sleepovers. Or get the kids into a false debt crisis, force them into stripping and prostitution- and take their wages so they CANNOT ESCAPE predator parents will do anything to demoralise and subordinate the child further.
This is seen in predator couple families, who then have but one goal to destroy the child’s credibility if she does not partake in sexual encounters. If the child does not sit on her stepdad’s lap she is punished. When the child has grown and is of no use to the predator couple and a child is written off and TOLD BY THE RAPIST the victim is living on borrowed time, if she dares complain about the abuse to the school guidance counsellor. Some predator couples disown the child who betrayed their sex circle, predator parents are sexual deviants
This is why adult children are estranged – predator couples have abused the child victim, and they keep the photos and videos for sexual gratification and to prevent prosecution. Imagine being raped for years and the predator parents keep the photos and all the child’s belongings jewellery the lot,- because like trophy rapists & killers they have trinkets, to give them a long-lasting thrill of getting away with REPEATED CRIME against a child.
How long will society allow children to be controlled by capitalists and the predator parents to benefit at the child’s expense ? children who are abused by their predator parents, live in Domestic Violent situations have to miss out on their savings which their parents control, and belongings when they flee the abuse. Those kids then who the stepdads moved from over-seas to Australia, to abuse have no family support except a jealous mum who has bad mouthed and whinged about the child to almost anyone. Because the mother is INHERRENTLY jealous of the sexual encounters but lives in denial gains a split personality. How long will Black-sheep claims be misunderstood by the stupid. Sexual abuse victims were isolated from family abused by their only relatives and a circle of paedophiles they are forced to raise their kids single-handley. Sexual abuse victims are born abused and thrown out and discarded when they speak out about the abuse.
There is a recent case where the rapist stepdad left his rape victim eldest daughter, off the death certificate and cremated the mother within four days, without the knowledge or consent of the eldest daughter. Who had looked after the sister since aged 8 and had huge responsibilities had had wages stolen and used.
Sexual abuse is an inescapable torment because society condones the abuse. Sexual abuse is NOT punished enough and allowed to flourish in Australia, it is then assumed this may lead to suicide- MANY SUSPECT, SOME POWERFUL PREDATOR PARENTS KILL THE KIDS MAKE IT LOOK LIKE AN OVER DOSE. How many suicides in Australia are people killed by predator parents, either directly killed, or from years of abuse and NO JAIL TIME FOR PREDATOR PARENTS.
These predator couples are capable of any crime. Many parents cash in on the victims and sell pornographic material of the abused child and end up in large homes, when they are bogan sexual deviant working class poor. I now wonder whether suicides happen, or if the stepdad does it? Because stepdads, who sexually interfere and/or rape a child and get away with it for years, they are UNCAUGHT REPEATED DANGEROUS CRIMINAL CHILD RAPISTS, who did get away with crime, and will always get away with it.
In this present time Australia as a nation is in the midst of a housing crisis, due to a GREEDY aging population and we are about to see a spike in the youth population, who will need to be housed. Law reform is needed to prevent current unsustainable practices, whereby child hating abusive stepdads, buy a luxury oversized home. Is it reasonable for an old man, who has not worked in 30 years, to really need a ‘5 bedroom’ home all to themselves? The law is unjust and arbitrary allowing the unscrupulous to cheat probate, taking more from the mother’s children, when sexually abused children are a meal ticket to stepdads. Child abuse victims are promised they would be adequately provided for in adulthood, are never reimbursed. This is because we are dealing with criminal child rapists, who are capable of anything they will shiftily purchase a flash home as a deathbed, whereby the opulence of a large home, can allow the death of a woman who has daughters, this woman must not have had her medical records read to not know she had a daughter. The medical records reveal her eldest daughter’s doctor’s, were in contact regarding the mother’s illness. Any death is a suspicious death which simply states dies of a certain cancer- there are always other complications. Parents of children should NOT be allowed to quickly be cremated in a few days’ time. Current Queensland law is flawed allowing those who are known to commit manslaughter to be executors over the one they killed.
It is important legal representatives who claim they act for those who have been left out and estranged due to child abuse, truly grasp the sexual abuse epidemic, which effects ‘1 in 3 girls’ and ‘1 in 5 boys’. It is high time- Lawyers, begin to comprehend the unnecessary and deliberate continued DV a child abuse victim still endures beyond the grave, due to their controlling abusive stepdad and lawyers need to act in the administration of justice for the estranged adult victims of child sexual abuse.
Therefore, there is and MUST be a family provision, in wills & testaments & extensions may occasionally even be granted at the courts complete discretion in rare cases, because it is harrowing what victims endure even in their mother’s death.